Sometimes guys come off as so nonchalant about relationships, leading us to think that they’re either not interested or would rather play the field. Those things can be true, but there’s another explanation: he could have a fear of intimacy. While women seek these deep relationships, the prospect of getting so close with a woman can scare the hell out of guys. How do you know if this is to blame for your issues? If these 10 things fit him, then he’s probably too scared to be vulnerable.
1. HE AVOIDS NIGHTS IN WITH JUST THE TWO OF YOU.
Perhaps your man is just an extrovert, but if he wants to be around people all the time, then he might have a fear facing himself and his thoughts, according to therapists. He may also have a fear of being alone with you because he knows he’ll have to open up when there are no other distractions.