2. HE NEVER WANTS TO TALK ABOUT HIS PROBLEMS.
Maybe your guy is a great listener and actually wants to help you fix what’s bothering you, but if he avoids talking about his own problems, he’s probably scared of opening up and being vulnerable with you. It’s not personal.
3. HE HAS UNREALISTIC STANDARDS WHEN IT COMES TO DATING.
He might not say to your face that he has a long list of qualities he looks for in his dream girl but you still feel like you have to measure up to incredibly high standards to be accepted by him. He always has a new complaint that has to be fixed before you can move your relationship forward. This isn’t on you! He’s just purposely putting up roadblocks out of fear (or he’s a jerk).