6. HE’S ALWAYS ACCUSING YOU OF TRYING TO CHANGE HIM.
Relationships can be scary because they do make you change. You have to be less selfish and make sacrifices for someone else. Expecting this out of the person you’re dating shouldn’t be a big deal, but to a person with intimacy issues, it’s huge.
7. HE DOESN’T TAKE REJECTION WELL.
Why does intimacy seem so scary to some people? You’re risking being rejected, and that hurts. If you feel like you can’t turn him down without him flipping out or shutting down, then he could be acting out due to this fear.