4. YOU WANT TO LIVE IN DIFFERENT PLACES.
If you have your heart set on New York but your boyfriend thinks his hometown is the only acceptable place to live, it’s time to break up and move on. Similarly, do you have a plan for if one of you is offered a job or advanced degree program placement in a random city? Will one of you move for the other? If the answer is no, your relationship is just running out the clock in the meantime.