No matter how badly you want to be in a relationship or how alone you may feel, you should never resort to forcing pieces to fit together with a guy when they just don’t. If you’re meant to be together, it’ll happen naturally. That’s why, no matter how hard it may seem, going with the flow is probably the best possible approach to dating.
1. IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF.
Trying to control the fate of a relationship puts a lot of pressure on you and the guy you’re with — pressure the relationship will fare way better without. You’re constantly trying to steer the direction of where things will go, but not only can you not control what happens in the long run, you shouldn’t have to. Relax, breathe, and let things happen.