While some people are lucky enough not to experience a trainwreck relationship – the kind that’s awful and gory and soul-sucking but impossible to walk away from – most of us have had or will have one at some point, and that’s actually a good thing. The pain, the anger, the rage are all necessary emotions that will improve your love life in the long run. Here’s how:
1. YOU LEARN HOW TO RECOGNIZE CRAZY IN THE FUTURE.
Once you see it for yourself, you can’t mistake it as anything else. There are, of course, variations and levels of crazy (not to be confused with actual mental health issues) – but those may come into play, especially if your ex doesn’t know about them or actively hides them. The point is, you’ll recognize selfish, narcissistic and abusive behaviors after you go through them with your ex.