My relationship was going great for a while but eventually fell into a slump that I was afraid might soon lead to a breakup. Instead of giving up on my boyfriend and what we’d built together, I decided we needed a reset. Here’s what we did and how it worked for us.
I TOLD HIM THAT I WASN’T HAPPY AND I NEEDED A CHANGE.
For weeks leading up to our reset, I struggled with telling my boyfriend about how I was feeling about our relationship. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings but I was really miserable. There’s something about telling someone that you love that he isn’t making you happy anymore that makes you feel really awful. However, I knew that if I didn’t speak up, we’d end up in an unsalvagable place and that scared me more. It was hard, but I’m glad I voiced my feelings.