4. IT MAKES ME EXTRA PICKY.
On the off chance that I actually decide to go on a date, I can tell within 20 minutes if I’ll ever see the guy again. When you know that you’re awful at relationships, it allows you to be extra picky because you know even if you do hit it off, it’s not likely to last, so why not be ultra choosy at all costs?
5. IT MAKES ME RELAXED AROUND MEN.
As a woman who dates men, knowing that anything that comes my way is probably going to end up a dumpster fire gives me the very freeing opportunity to be relaxed around them. Even guys that I think are hot, I’m completely cool around because I don’t see the point in trying to impress them. Instead, I get to be that fun, laid-back girl who isn’t searching for ways to lure a man into her clutches. It’s liberating to have a genuine “whatever” mentality around dudes.